Cheating Sucks!: When the Bomb Hits & Your Life Explodes

***Audiobook available at BadassCounseling.com, not Audible.***Did the bomb just drop? Or maybe you’ve known for months or suspect it may be going on? (Or, are you the one who did it and just came clean?)If so, right now, your stomach is in knots and your head is spinning. Every day is hard in its own way. Your partner is pressing you to return, to forgive, to get back to normal. But you can’t see straight to save your life and definitely can’t trust.Layered into it are the infernal questions and internal attacks that run on never-ending loop: WTF is wrong with me? God, I miss her? I don’t trust him! What about the kids? What will people think? Should I take him back? I hate her so much! Does she even love me anymore?This is where people, influenced by the pressures of the partner and outside forces jump or slide back into the relationship, trying to make it work, while unsure it ever can. That is the mistake, because a muddled brain and shattered heart should not be making such a big decision of 'should I stay or should I go?'Most cheating books are designed for one or the other: forgive and make it work or move on.But the problem is that this is the absolute worst time of your entire life to be making such a colossal decision.So, Cheating Sucks! proposes a different solution. The cheated-on person never has more power to make change or just have room to think than when they neither commit to going back into the relationship, nor commit to leaving. It is precisely this room to think and power to make change that the cheated most needs at this time. It is in this space that the cheated most needs to go deep and heal themself before any decision can ever or should ever be made.Bestselling author, Sven Erlandson, knows! Never has a book been written by an author who was cheated-on (2x), a cheater (1x), and co-cheater with 30+ women who were unfaithful to their husbands, partners, or wives (yes, wives!), AND has had a successful, global counseling practice for 30+ years!He is known online as the very real, raw, no-BS Badass Counseling with over 3 million followers globally on social media.Full of deep insights and steamy stories, including his own failings and insecurities, Erlandson helps you triage where you’re at right now, what’s going on in your cheater, what cheating myths are doing harm to the situation, and what needs to be done to heal YOU, first and foremost.Incorporating song recommendations and journaling exercises, Cheating Sucks! does what no other infidelity book does, walk you through the ugly, scary, nasty path of healing you, while sorting out the biggest decision of your life, “WHAT THE HELL DO I DO NOW?”You just gotta bring the courage!This book will kick your ass and change your life! Read more